Let Go To Let Grow

“To plant a garden is to believe in tomorrow.”

Audrey Hepburn

Song: Let It Go By James Bay

Article: The Crossroads by Seth Godin

Thought: Last one in my series on soundtracks. I hope you have enjoyed hearing about these as much as I have enjoyed sharing them. The last soundtrack is: Let Go to Let Grow.

Gardening is really simple. It takes four things – a seed, environment, water and nutrients. You can control for all of those factors with different systems. You know what won’t help a plant grow? Grabbing onto it and squeezing it.

It’s the same thing with people and relationships. Holding on tighter won’t let it grow but choke it out. I used to believe if I didn’t hold tightly everyone would leave me. The truth is they might leave – regardless of how tightly or loosely I hold.

In my relationships, I focus on three things:

  • Environment – compassion, empathy, trust, joy
  • Water – affirmation, encouragement, kindness, listening
  • Nutrients – texts, calls, cards, dinners, gifts

Let Go, Let Grow.

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