Uncomfortable

“When we look at Auschwitz we see the end of the process. It’s important to remember that the Holocaust actually did not start from gas chambers. This hatred gradually developed from words, stereotypes & prejudice through legal exclusion, dehumanisation & escalating violence.”

Memorial and Museum Auschwitz-Birkenau

Song: Do Better by Nappy Roots

Article: Confronting and Fighting Horror: On David Livingstone Smith’s “On Inhumanity: Dehumanization and How to Resist It” by Linda Roland Danil

Inspiration for evil by David Livingstone Smith

Thought: This post is in honor of International Holocaust Remembrance Day (Jan 27­), the memory of more than six million Jews systematically murdered and for my Jewish friends who still suffer discrimination today. Your faith is beautiful. 

There’s been a lot in the news and social media about what makes children (and frankly their parents) uncomfortable these days. We are seeing curriculum and books be banned from schools – topics like gender identity, slavery, racism, the Holocaust, sexual health, sexism, and consent. The word that is commonly used is uncomfortable. It’s supposed to be fucking uncomfortable.

Trevor Noah said this week (paraphrased) that if we don’t teach how we got to the Holocaust, then it becomes a group of people who just got free pajamas and went to camp. Likewise, if we don’t teach about the horrors of slavery, then it becomes laborers working in fields for food, lodging and economics (saying nothing of the color of their skin). If we don’t teach about systemic racism, then it’s easy to say “all lives matter” while watching black children be murdered. If we don’t teach about the torture of Matthew Shepard, then it becomes just a bunch of guys messing around that got out of hand. If we don’t teach why half our population doesn’t have equitable access to health care, then we make laws that result in women suffering and dying. If we don’t teach about consent with horrific examples, then we silence the victim and the abuser goes on committing harm.

The problem with turning away from being uncomfortable means that the history you shy from becomes the new future you create. Do better and be uncomfortable. 

Zoom Out

“When you feel scared, hold someone’s hand and look into their eyes. And when you feel brave, do the same. You are all here because you are smart. And you are brave. And if you add kindness and the ability to change a tire, you almost make up the perfect person.”

Amy Poehler

Song: Lightshow by Plants and Animals

Article: Every Leader Needs to Navigate These 7 Tensions by Jennifer Jordan, Michael Wade and Elizabeth Teracino

Thought: I pasted a photo into a document the other day and it was obscenely large. I was forced to confront every detail. My gray hairs, blemished skin, something in my teeth and poorly maintained eyebrows. Up close it all looks a little worse than the whole picture. Same goes for depression and anxiety. Same goes for grief. Being too zoomed in shows everything without context of how far I’ve come. When I zoom out it doesn’t look nearly as bad; it takes effort to zoom out rather than remained fixated on the blown up view. Progress, not perfect.

Bonus Thought: The Way We Work by Liz Fosslien

This ones for you Aimee 🙂